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The-Mystery-of-TimeThe Mystery of Time<p>Have you ever wondered what time really means? Many great scholars, scientists, philosophers, and teachers have defined&nbsp;<em>Time&nbsp;</em>in beautiful and rational ways. But to me, what Time truly means&nbsp;remains a mystery!</p> <p>Time is of paramount significance to our very existence as human beings. Depending on how it is managed, Time can be our greatest friend or&nbsp;it can be our greatest enemy, for time waits for no man.</p> <p>Everything revolves around Time. Everything in this world exists within Time. Life on earth could never exist outside of Time.&nbsp;Time is life; life is Time. Time is the&nbsp;ultimate master. Everything begins with Time and ends with Time. Without Time, there will be no day nor night.</p> <p>What could&nbsp;be done in this world without Time? Time is a precious resource: once used, it cannot be taken back. Time is&nbsp;the most valuable resource anyone&nbsp;can spend. Time should not be wasted!&nbsp;That is why it should not be misused.</p> <p>People live their lives every day, planning where to go or what to do next. But in reality, we don&rsquo;t know how much time we&nbsp;have left on earth. There is a specific time appointed for each of us to depart. Simply put, our time is limited.</p> <p>It&rsquo;s important for us to become more concerned about how we are&nbsp;managing our&nbsp;time since we don&rsquo;t hold it in our hands. For example, an individual&nbsp;can&nbsp;possess great talents but if he/she&nbsp;fails to manage their time wisely, those&nbsp;talents cannot yield success.</p> <p>You can start to enjoy life when you start to know the value of Time. You can view life from a more vivid perspective&nbsp;when you begin to consider the different times at which various events occur:</p> <ul> <li aria-level="1">The time when friends became foes and the time when foes became brothers.</li> <li aria-level="1">The time when trusted companions turned out to be the greatest source of pain and regret.</li> <li aria-level="1">The time when genuine forgiveness was the only medicine to heal the wounds of betrayal, deceit, and fear.</li> </ul> <p>Everyone has a specific time mapped out for their mission on Earth. If you truly know this, you will be careful with your time. You won't spend your time hating people or being jealous of people. You won't spend time backbiting others or holding grudges against them. You won't spend time keeping unforgiveness within you or lying to your neighbors. After all, we don't have enough time to love so why spend time hating people? We don't have enough time to build so why waste time destroying someone? We don't have enough time to even promote peace so why waste time creating war? We don't have enough time to forgive everyone and be free so why waste time holding on to unforgiveness? We don't have enough time to be hopeful so why waste time being hopeless? Consider the parable of the prodigal son who, at one point in time, went to his father and requested his own share of his father's possessions, because he felt it was time for him to independently manage his time. After squandering all that was given to him, he took time to realize that he has wasted his time. Let us not waste our time! They say time is money. Do you know the time people take to waste on insignificant things, others are using that same time to make money? The time people use to envy, hate and backbite other people is the same time they&nbsp; could use to concentrate on themselves and become their greatest visions!</p> <p>Consider these truths:</p> <ul> <li aria-level="1">God took time to&nbsp;create us in His&nbsp;image and after His&nbsp;likeness.</li> <li aria-level="1">Osagyefo Kwame&nbsp;Nkrumah&nbsp;used his time to gain independence for Ghana.</li> <li aria-level="1">Nelson&nbsp;Mandela&nbsp;used his time to stop&nbsp;Apartheid&nbsp;in South Africa.</li> <li aria-level="1">Italian Explorer, Christopher Columbus used his time to discover the &lsquo;&rsquo;new world.&rsquo;&rsquo;</li> <li aria-level="1">Senior Prophet TB Joshua used his time to avail himself for God to use him to deliver His people from all manners of oppression and affliction of the devil.</li> <li aria-level="1">Mark Zuckerberg used his time to create Facebook.</li> <li aria-level="1">Samuel Eto&nbsp;Fils used his time to be the Samuel Eto Fils we know today.</li> <li aria-level="1">Nana Kwame Bediako is using his time to be Freedom Jacob&nbsp;Caesar.</li> <li aria-level="1">You are currently using your time to read about the consciousness of&nbsp;time.</li> </ul> <p><strong>What Are We Achieving with Our Time?</strong></p> <p>Take time to have a retrospective look at life. Humanity has progressed and retrogressed greatly over time. What time is it for&nbsp;you?</p> <ul> <li aria-level="1">Is it time&nbsp;to put the broken pieces together and rebuild?</li> <li aria-level="1">Is it time to forget the past and start afresh?</li> <li aria-level="1">Is it time for you to truly discover yourself&nbsp;and create the &lsquo;fulfillment-of-purpose&rsquo; mentality?</li> </ul> <p>God has given each one of us&nbsp;a specific time to be&nbsp;in this world so that we&nbsp;can make&nbsp;positive impacts.&nbsp;Each of us has a purpose to fulfill.</p> <p>In what ways are you&nbsp;using&nbsp;your time to positively impact&nbsp;your home,&nbsp;your school, your community, your nation,&nbsp;and the world? Today, a lot of people blame others for their misfortunes, not realizing that their main problem has been the fact that they don&rsquo;t know how&nbsp;to manage their time. What are you spending&nbsp;your&nbsp;time on?</p> <ul> <li aria-level="1">Are you using&nbsp;your time to hate&nbsp;your brothers, sisters, fathers, mothers, uncles, aunties, friends,&nbsp;or colleagues?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using your time to backbite other people?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using your time to be jealous of other people?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using your time to love yourself?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using your time to love other people?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using&nbsp;your time to learn new skills and become better at what you&nbsp;do?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you&nbsp;using your time to give hope to the hopeless?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using&nbsp;your time to cause a positive change in someone&rsquo;s life?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using&nbsp;your time to help the vulnerable and less privileged?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using&nbsp;your time to build or to destroy?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using&nbsp;your time to love or to hate?</li> <li aria-level="1">Are you using your time to elevate or eradicate?</li> </ul> <p>Even God works with time! God uses Time to reveal Himself to us and give us&nbsp;a&nbsp;deeper understanding of His unfailing love and immeasurable power.&nbsp;With time, He defeated the orchestrated deception which took place in the Garden of Eden; which&nbsp;caused mankind to fall from grace.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>When the time was right, God carried out His redemption plan for mankind.&nbsp;With time, God allowed Joseph to go to the pit, then to the house of temptation, then to the prison, and finally to the palace.</p> <p>With time, God raised David, a poor shepherd boy who defeated the ruthless giant and eventually sat on the throne of Israel.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Everything under the sun happens within time. Even the Bible was written over a period of time.</p> <ul> <li aria-level="1">Who is he that gathers his wheat during summer and stores enough for his convenience during winter: is it not he that is time-conscious?</li> <li aria-level="1">Who is he that saves a penny a day, with the hope that he can amass wealth over a period of time: is it not he that is time-conscious?</li> <li aria-level="1">Who is he that knows when to sleep and when to wake up, when to play and when to work: is it not he that is time-conscious?</li> </ul> <p>People who are time-conscious are the best managers of Time. Some people spend time fantasizing about the best life there is but do nothing to realize the life they fantasize about.</p> <p>Great inventors spend time thinking and taking well-calculated steps to come up with great inventions and discoveries.</p> <p>It takes time for the mother to conceive a seed, house it, nourish and develop it until the time is due for delivery. It takes a particular time for the mother to bring forth the seed she has carried over a period of time.</p> <p>Without Time, the human race would wander, unrestricted and purposeless, not knowing the significance of goals and visions, unable to set priorities, and not knowing when to start and when to finish. For it is out of the consciousness of time that man is able to make choices, set goals and priorities, and remind himself of the needful because he knows he does not have all the time in the world.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>With proper management of Time, we can hew, out of our God-given abilities and talents, mountains of success! It takes time for the table to turn, so why use Time to oppress the less privileged? Within the slightest blink of time, The Creator is able to uplift the poor, strengthen the weak, and dignify&nbsp;the&nbsp;<em>nobody</em>! Why use Time to oppress the weak? Why use Time to badmouth and backbite someone?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Everything in the universe obeys Time. There could be no moment without Time because time and moment cannot be separated. A world without Time could only exist as long as there were no changes, for Time and change are linked.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Time is of the essence! Time is an available, yet, scarce resource. Time is not to be wasted. It&rsquo;s about time you ask yourself these questions:</p> <ul> <li aria-level="1">Am I using my time to build or to destroy?</li> <li aria-level="1">Am I using my time to love or to hate?</li> <li aria-level="1">What will I be remembered for, for the time I am spending on planet Earth?</li> </ul> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Time decides your stay in this world. Time lovers are those who use it wisely. As long as you invest positive energies into your time, you can be assured of making positive impacts on your family, community, state, region, country, and the world at large.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>If you want to create real change right where you are, you must start taking Time&nbsp;more seriously.&nbsp;If you desire to see the changes you want in the world, you&nbsp;must&nbsp;become more aware of&nbsp;the reality of Time.</p> <p>Let us use&nbsp;our time wisely! Time is everything! And always remember, Truth is the greatest religion.</p>time-1536x1024.jpgHave you ever wondered what time really means? Many great scholars, scientists, philosophers, and teachers have defined Time in beautiful and rational ways. But to me, what Time truly means remains a mystery!
The-Danger-of-Not Knowing-Who-You Are The Danger of Not Knowing Who You Are<p>In a world saturated with external noise and constant digital bombardment, the essence of personal identity can sometimes feel like it's slipping through our fingers. The journey to self-discovery is arguably one of the most critical expeditions one embarks upon in life, yet it's a path fraught with detours and obstacles. Not knowing who you truly are carries with it a multitude of risks, not just to your mental and emotional well-being but also to the quality and direction of your life. Let's dive deeper into the dangers of not knowing yourself and why it's imperative to embark on this journey of self-discovery.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>1. Living According to Others&rsquo; Expectations</strong></p> <p>One of the most significant dangers of not understanding your own identity is the risk of living a life based on what others expect of you. Without a firm grasp of who you are, your desires, and what you stand for, it's easy to fall into the trap of trying to meet societal, familial, or peer expectations at the expense of your own happiness and fulfillment. This can lead to a life that feels unauthentic and ultimately unfulfilling.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>2. Vulnerability to Influence and Manipulation</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>When you're unsure of your own values and boundaries, you become more susceptible to being swayed by the opinions and desires of others. This vulnerability can be exploited, leading to manipulation in relationships, workplaces, and social circles. Knowing who you are provides a shield against such influences, allowing you to stay true to your path and make decisions that are best for you.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>3. Chronic Indecision</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Not knowing yourself can manifest in an inability to make decisions, big or small. Each choice becomes a paralyzing challenge when you&rsquo;re unaware of what you truly want or value. This indecision can stagnate personal and professional growth, leading to missed opportunities and regrets.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>4. Increased Anxiety and Emotional Turmoil</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The quest for self-identity is deeply intertwined with our emotional health. An unclear sense of self can foster feelings of confusion, anxiety, and low self-esteem. These feelings can escalate into more severe mental health issues, hindering one's ability to lead a balanced and fulfilling life.&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>5. Relationship Difficulties</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Interpersonal relationships thrive on authenticity and deep emotional connections. If you don&rsquo;t understand yourself, forming these meaningful connections becomes challenging. This can lead to superficial relationships or patterns of dependency, where your sense of identity becomes too closely entwined with how others perceive you.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>6. Compromised Life Satisfaction</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>At the heart of not knowing who you are is a fundamental disconnect from your passions, dreams, and goals. This can result in a life that lacks purpose and meaning. The joy of pursuing what truly moves you remains an undiscovered territory, limiting your overall satisfaction and happiness in life.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>7. Overcoming the Unknown</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The journey to self-discovery is ongoing, evolving as you grow and experience life. It requires introspection, curiosity, and the courage to face your truths. Embrace the process of uncovering who you are through journaling, therapy, trying new experiences, and reflecting on your values and aspirations. Remember, understanding yourself is not just about pinpointing who you are today but being open to who you might become tomorrow.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The dangers of not knowing who you are can affect virtually every aspect of your life, from personal relationships to your career, mental health, and sense of fulfillment and purpose. You'll likely encounter challenges in pursuing self-knowledge, but the rewards &mdash; authenticity, clarity, resilience, and profound inner peace &mdash; are invaluable. Start the journey today; your true self awaits.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>who_you_are.jpgThe Danger of Not Knowing Who You Are Our main problem is that we don't know ourselves. Because if we know ourselves and the power we have, we won't be
Patience-A-Virtue-for SuccessGoal Setting 101: How to Achieve Your Dreams with Billy Gomez.<p>Setting and achieving goals is foundational for turning your dreams into reality. Life Coach Billy Gomez is here to guide you through the process of setting realistic goals and making them achievable by following the S.M.A.R.T. criteria.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Understanding the Power of Goal Setting</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Why Set Goals?</p> <p>Goals provide direction, clarity, and purpose in our lives. They give us something to strive for and keep us motivated when faced with challenges. Setting goals makes us more likely to take focused actions that lead us closer to our desired outcomes.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>The S.M.A.R.T. Approach</strong></p> <p>S.M.A.R.T. is an acronym that stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound. Let's break down each component and how they contribute to effective goal setting:</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>- Specific: Clearly define your goal. The more specific you are, the easier it will be to create a roadmap for achieving it.</p> <p>- Measurable: Set tangible metrics to track your progress. Knowing how close you are to reaching your goal can keep you motivated.</p> <p>- Achievable: Ensure your goal is realistic and achievable within your current circumstances and resources.</p> <p>- Relevant: Your goal should align with your values and long-term objectives. Make sure it is meaningful and relevant to your overall vision.</p> <p>- Time-bound: Set a deadline for your goal. Having a clear timeline creates a sense of urgency and helps you stay on track.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Step-by-Step Guide to Goal Setting</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>1. Reflect on Your Vision: Start by visualizing your ideal future. What do you want to achieve? What does success look like to you?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>2. Break It Down: Divide your long-term goal into smaller, manageable tasks. This makes your goal more manageable and achievable.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>3. Apply the S.M.A.R.T. Criteria: Ensure that your goals meet each of the S.M.A.R.T. criteria to increase their chances of success.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>4. Create an Action Plan: Outline the steps you need to take to reach your goal. Set deadlines for each step and hold yourself accountable.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>5. Track Your Progress: Regularly review your progress toward your goals. Celebrate small wins and adjust your plan if needed.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>In conclusion, goal setting is a powerful tool for turning your dreams into reality. By following the S.M.A.R.T. criteria and breaking down your goals into actionable steps, you can set yourself up for success. With guidance from experts like Billy Gomez, you can achieve your aspirations, no matter how big or small. Remember, the journey to success begins with a clear goal and a commitment to taking consistent action.</p>pexels-photo-289586-1536x935.jpegA wise man once said, Rome was not built in one day.Everybody under the sun envisages or has at one point in time envisaged, wonderful life for themselves. We
Discovering-Your-Purpose in-LifeDiscovering Your Purpose in Life<p>In the grand tapestry of existence, finding one's purpose is akin to discovering a guiding light, illuminating the path to fulfillment and inner peace. Yet, this pursuit can often feel daunting, obscured by the complexities of life and the myriad responsibilities we juggle daily. The quest for purpose is not about finding a singular answer; it's about embarking on a journey of self-discovery, understanding your passions, and contributing to the world in a meaningful way. Let's explore how you can navigate this expedition to uncover your life's purpose.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Understanding the Essence of Purpose</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Purpose is the essence that imbues your life with direction, enthusiasm, and meaning. It's the force that drives you to wake up every morning with a sense of anticipation for what you are about to create, explore, and experience. Purpose transcends occupations and achievements; it's found in the very core of your being and how you connect with the world around you.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>The Journey Within: Self-Reflection</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The voyage to discovering your purpose begins with introspection. Set aside moments for quiet reflection, away from the noise and demands of daily life. Ask yourself questions that go beyond the surface:</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>- What activities make me lose track of time?</p> <p>- When do I feel the most alive and fulfilled?</p> <p>- What are my deepest values and how am I living by them?</p> <p>- If I had all the resources I needed, what would I do to make a difference in the world?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>The answers to these questions are the compass points guiding you towards your purpose.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Embracing Your Passions and Strengths</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Recognize the activities that ignite your passion and the strengths that come naturally to you. Your purpose is often found at the intersection of what you love to do and what you're good at. This might not always align with your current job or what others expect of you, and that's okay. Your purpose is uniquely yours, and it's about how you bring your passions and strengths to light in every aspect of your life.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Learning from Life's Experiences</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Every experience, no matter how seemingly trivial or profound, holds lessons that edge you closer to your purpose. Reflect on your experiences, especially the challenging ones, and ask yourself what they taught you about your desires, boundaries, and aspirations. Life's trials often reveal our true priorities and can dramatically shift our perspective on what's genuinely important.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Making a Difference in the World</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Purpose often involves a component of contributing to something greater than yourself. Consider how you can use your unique talents and passions to address the needs of your community or the world at large. Whether it's through your profession, volunteer work, or everyday interactions, making a positive impact on the lives of others can be a powerful way to fulfill your purpose.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Taking Action and Reassessing</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Embarking on your purpose is not a one-time event but a lifelong journey. Take small, consistent steps towards what feels meaningful to you, and be open to reassessing and adjusting your path as you grow and evolve. Remember, discovering your purpose is not about achieving perfection but about striving for a life that is richly lived, authentic, and aligned with your values.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Uncovering your life's purpose is a profound journey of self-discovery, reflection, and connection. It's about finding clarity in your passions, learning from your experiences, and making a difference in a way that resonates with you. While the path may not always be straightforward, each step you take towards understanding your purpose adds depth, color, and meaning to your life's canvas. Embrace the journey, for within it lies the heart of your true purpose.</p>life-1536x1024.jpgHave you ever asked yourself what's your life's purpose? This is a question that has been asked since the beginning of time by everyone at one point in their lives.
The-Importance-of EnemiesThe Importance of Enemiesenemy-1536x1022.jpgWhenever the word enemy is mentioned, we usually think and perceive something or someone negative. It�s true that an enemy is an undesirable person. An enemy is an opposition to one�s growth, betterment, �
There-is-No-Testimony Without a TestThe Power of Positive Thinking<p>Do you ever stop to think about how your thoughts impact your day-to-day life? Our mindset plays a crucial role in shaping our experiences and ultimately determining our level of happiness and success. In this blog post, we're going to delve into the power of positive thinking and how a simple shift in perspective can lead to significant transformations in your life.</p> <p><strong>Embracing a Positive Mindset</strong></p> <p><strong>What is Positive Thinking?</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Positive thinking isn't just about putting on a fake smile and pretending everything is perfect. It's about approaching life with an optimistic outlook, focusing on solutions rather than dwelling on problems. Positive thinking is a mindset that allows you to see the good in every situation, no matter how challenging it may seem.</p> <p><strong>The Benefits of Positive Thinking</strong></p> <p>Research has shown that positive thinking can have a profound impact on both our physical and mental health. People who practice positive thinking tend to experience lower levels of stress, reduced risk of depression, and better overall well-being. By cultivating a positive mindset, you can improve your relationships, boost your confidence, and even enhance your performance at work.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Practical Tips for Cultivating Positivity</strong></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>1. Practice Gratitude: Take time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for. Keeping a gratitude journal can help shift your focus from what's going wrong to what's going right in your life.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>2. Challenge Negative Thoughts: Become aware of negative self-talk and challenge those thoughts with more realistic and positive alternatives. Replace "I can't do this" with "I will give it my best shot."</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>3. Surround Yourself with Positivity: Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you. Choose to spend time with individuals who radiate positivity and encourage your personal growth.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>4. Visualize Success: Visualization is a powerful tool for manifesting your goals. Take time to imagine yourself achieving your dreams and let that vision drive you forward.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>5. Take Care of Your Mind and Body: A healthy lifestyle is key to maintaining a positive mindset. Ensure you're getting enough sleep, eating nutritious foods, and exercising regularly to support your mental well-being.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><strong>Conclusion</strong></p> <p>In conclusion, the power of positive thinking should be considered. Adopting a new positive mindset, you can transform your life in ways you never thought possible. Start incorporating these practical tips into your daily routine and watch as your outlook on life begins to shift. Change starts from within, and cultivating a positive mindset is the first step toward a brighter, more fulfilling future.</p>grief.jpgThe Power of Positive Thinking: Transform Your Life with a New Mindset.